"Ask small questions, take small steps, think small thoughts, 
solve small problems”  Dr. Robert  Maurer, One Small Step Can Change your Life

If you’re in a rut, feeling stuck and know you want to change  your life but don’t know how, you only have to change one thing to make the  difference. You can move forward in a big surge, or one inch, but it will be  forward. Don’t expect anything to change however, if you think  getting someone else to change will make a difference, and the solution will  not appear outside of yourself.   Searching in the wrong place will only make you feel like a victim, and  you will end up discouraged.  It’s  like the drunk who was outside under the street light looking for the keys to  his house when he knew the keys were somewhere across the street, but he kept looking where he was because there was more light and he could see better. 
 
When you do just one thing differently, you’ll find in  short order that you will have the energy and enthusiasm that comes with fresh inspiration.   Here are Just a few ideas:
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~ If you’re shy and  insecure, take an action step, such as signing up for Toastmasters public
speaking groups, a non-profit organization worldwide.   You will be around people who can relate to what you are feeling, and  they will teach you valuable life skills you didn’t learn in school about  boosting self-confidence and self-esteem.   These meetings are found virtually everywhere, in  large and small communities and are available for just a small, nominal fee.  http://www.toastmasters.org/
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~ Do you tend to  overanalyze, make things complex and confusing?  Simplify – clean your desk, weed out  clothes in your closet, organize your car.  Free  up space inside of your head for new thoughts and ideas and you'll feel empowered from getting closure on clutter.
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~ Do you feel angry, frustrated impatient? – Get quiet and relaxed, breathe  deeply.  Teach your mind the new  trick of not always having to react.  Pause, think it through. Make a new choice.
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~ Do you want to follow  your dream but you don’t know where to start, or you’re tempted to give up too
soon?  Take baby steps.  Make the steps so small you  can’t possibly fail.

Remember the words of Mother Theresa:   “To God, there is nothing small”