The Power of your attraction lies in the single-minded purpose of your attention.

If you’re in a rut, feeling stuck and know you want to change  your life but don’t know how, you only have to change one thing to make the  difference. You can move forward in a big surge, or one inch, but it will be
forward.

Don’t expect anything to change however, if you think  getting someone else to change will make a difference, and the solution will  not appear outside of yourself.   Searching in the wrong place will only make you feel like a victim, and  you will end up discouraged.  It’s  like the drunk who was outside under the street light looking for the keys to  his house when he knew the keys were somewhere across the street in the dark, but he wanted to keep looking where he was because the was more light. 
 
When you do just one thing differently, you’ll find in  short order that you will have the energy and enthusiasm that comes with new and  inspired ideas.   Here are  some ideas:

Overcome Fear of Public Speaking
If you’re shy and insecure, take an action step, such as signing up for Toastmasters public
speaking groups, a non-profit organization worldwide. You will be around people who can relate to what you are feeling, and  they will teach you valuable life skills you didn’t learn in school about boosting self-confidence and self-esteem.   These meetings are found virtually everywhere, in  large and small communities and are available for just a small, nominal fee.  http://www.toastmasters.org/
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Clear Clutter From Your Life and Your Mind
Do you tend to  overanalyze, make things complex and confusing?  Simplify – clean your desk, weed out
clothes in your closet, organize your car.  Free  up space inside of your head for new thoughts and ideas.

Take Time Out ·       
Get quiet and relaxed –  do you feel angry, frustrated impatient? – Get quiet and relaxed, breathe
deeply.  Teach your mind a new  trick.  You don’t always have to  react at once.  Pause, think it through.
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Make It Easy On Yourself
Do you want to follow  your dream but you don’t know where to start, or you’re tempted to give up too
soon?  Take baby steps.   Make the steps so small you can’t possibly fail.

 Remember the words of Mother Theresa:   “To God, there is nothing small”